You’re getting married. You’ve set a date. You are figuring out the everything there is to plan for a wedding. There are binders. Plural. Centerpieces is now a word you’ve thought about more than once. You are looking into caterers, dresses, venues, photographers, and you know why you don’t throw rice (by the way that turns out to be an urban legend), and you are struggling to remain on speaking terms with your family without inviting 73252 people to your wedding.
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I have taught hundreds of couples to dance, and I specialize in ensuring wedding couples like you really enjoy that wonderful celebration by turning a stressful moment into a fun and romantic one.
I volunteered for the career day for the 11th and 12th graders at my son’s school and they asked me to explain what I do:
More specifically, they asked me to “please provide a brief job description and list the most important aspects of your current job. This will help our students understand what you do on a daily basis.”
Wanting to be completely honest with these kids who are about to try to pick a school, pick a major, figure out a career, I sent them this:
I lead a plucky team of data scientists, engineers, and analysts in finding undeclared nuclear R&D around the world. We built/bought/integrated the software, begged/borrowed/took the data, fused it together into something that can swing a billion data records at our most difficult questions, and trained people in how to wield the tools we’d built.
Disciplines involved:
– large-scale data analytics
– information modeling
– programming
– machine learning
– information visualization
– persuasion
– patience
– impatience
– not knowing when to quit
What would you say?
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So you’re an American expat living in Austria. Whether or not you decide to buy a car here, you’ll need to rent one occasionally, or make use of a car-sharing service like ZipCar or DriveNow, or borrow a friend’s car to bring stuff home from IKEA.
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Americans on vacation don’t have to worry about this, because Americans don’t get enough vacation time to stay in Europe for the 30 days before you are *supposed* to have obtained an International Driver’s License. (By the way an IDL is not a driver’s license at all – it’s just a multi-language translation of your existing driver’s license that you are supposed to carry with your regular license.) But those of us who have moved here start to run into the time limits.
Maybe you didn’t bother with the International Driver’s License, and it didn’t matter because rental car companies don’t ask, and let’s say you haven’t been pulled over, so the police have never asked. The next time limit you hit is
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Now, expats can, and do, get away with not doing this. Again, rental car companies don’t check. They’re used to dealing with American tourists who are never going to be here more than a couple of weeks, or at most three months (that’s the maximum stay for an American without a visa). I have heard that at least one car-sharing service, Drive Now, does check your license every six months and they will suspend your membership if you’re still driving on the American license you signed up with. And, I’ve never been pulled over in Europe so I don’t know for sure, but I’m guessing the police might not bother or even be able to check when you entered Europe when you hand them your American license.
You will need to make sure you keep your license from expiring, which means renewing it online and having the new one sent to an in-state address back in the US that you can receive mail at. Or you can renew it in person when you’re on home leave. Procedures vary state to state.
Regardless, according to the Austrian DMV, you’re not legal to drive on your American license past 6 months. Fortunately, getting your American license converted to an Austrian one is not that hard, and doesn’t require a driving test.
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I personally opted for private insurance, rather than the public, but the way it works, I often get the same care, particularly when I go to a hospital.
So, two weeks ago, my son and I head home from his swim lesson, he on his scooter, I on my longboard. And I hit a wet patch of concrete I didn’t see and wipe out. Hard. I’m near blind with pain, but I manage to get up, reassure my son, and get him home. In retrospect, it would have made more sense to get to the hospital immediately, but, well, I didn’t.
Anyway, I get to the hospital and here’s how it goes (It’s a Saturday, by the way.):
12:30: Check in. They ask for my eCard, I explain I have private insurance and will be paying myself. Fine, they’ll send the bill to my house.
12:40: Wait.
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13:25: Wait.
13:30: get X-rayed
13:35: Wait.
13:40: Doctor confirms broken clavicle, prescribes Seractil (dexibuprofen), tells me to come back in a week. Nurse fits me for sling and swathe.
The hospital bill comes to 106.80€ ($117). Total. My insurance company will reimburse me 80% of that, so I’ll only pay 21€.
I go back to the hospital a week later (Friday morning). I’m in and out in an hour. Treatment included another X-ray and feedback from the doctor.
Went back today and it was the same – in and out in an hour. It’s healing well, by the way.
So I’ve been to the hospital three times, seen doctors each time, gotten three x-rays, and checked in as a new patient once. Total time is less than I’ve typically spent in a single hospital visit in the US. The cost, even before I get reimbursed, is a fraction of American medical costs.
I’m telling an outpatient hospital story because the experience is the same whether I have private insurance or not. Private insurance makes more of a difference with in-patient or doctor care, but even then the difference is more about comfort – private rooms and whatnot.
The War on Terror is over. Terror won.
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The country which claims to lead the free world now openly spies on its allies and its own citizens. The rationale? Terrorism and crime.
The President-Elect won on a platform that stated America is in trouble, she is in danger, and your neighbor, your neighboring country, your neighboring religion, your neighboring race, your own allies…they are the danger. What danger? Terrorism, crime, and economic ruin.
Parents risk losing custody of their children if they allow them to explore their own neighborhoods. Why? It’s a dangerous neighborhood. Strangers are dangerous, and they are everywhere. Better your children be taken by CPS than by a human trafficking ring.
We spend billions and have invented almost an entire new branch of government with a slew of new acronyms…DNI, NCTC, DHS, TSA to name a few. Terrorism.
Where once we worried about Africanized bees, now we see the spread of militarized police. Crime.
Cameras, ubiquitous now, are not welcome near the actions of these entities. Drones recording the #NoDAPL protests are grounded by the FAA. We can’t see what the militarized police are doing.
We imprison more of our people per capita than any other developed nation.
But terrorism is a danger on par with texting while driving in number of annual deaths. Perhaps we need to reduce the WoT to a few ad campaigns and PSAs. Or maybe create half a dozen new federal agencies (armed, with drones) to fight the WoTWD.
Crime is down too. Actual stranger danger is so rare as to be almost nonexistent. Your child is in more danger at home, indoors.
The economy is doing well. The rich are getting richer faster than anyone, but everyone else is doing better. Global poverty continues to drop dramatically. Goods are cheaper.
There are localized differences. Deaths by gun are high in the US. Deaths by armed conflict are high in the Middle East. Deaths by disease are high in Africa. Factory workers are losing jobs to automation even as Uber makes anyone with a car employable. But globally, and nationally in the US, we are living better than ever before.
Our greatest actual dangers are actually problems of affluence: we have so much cheap food we are eating ourselves to death, and we have so many cars whizzing around that we routinely smash them into each other with people inside.
We are not acting rationally. We are reacting from fear. We live in fear. But we are like a child who is too scared to go down into the dark cellar, but has to be held back from running into traffic. Irrational.
But in practice this isn’t usually necessary. With enough data, noise suffers from destructive interference, and signal interferes constructively. I first learned about this in physics class in school, and first encountered it while doing radio astronomy. I was a research assistant on a team that realized we had an opportunity to make the highest quality radio maps ever made of certain galaxies. See, when big stars go supernova, astronomers like to aim the Very Large Array of radio telescopes in New Mexico at them to study how the massive explosions grow and change. They get a lot of data, write their papers, and move on. But supernovas happen in galaxies. And scientists share data. So our PIs realized they had very long exposures of the galaxies containing the supernovae. Radio astronomy “pictures” tend to be noisier than pictures taken by optical telescopes, and noise in a picture of a distant galaxy can overwhelm the detail of star formation regions and the like. However, noise is random, whereas the bright spots (except for the supernova) don’t change noticeably. So if you take the sum of enough radio data, the random noise cancels out, and the actual bright regions become clear. Note, this is not the same thing as astronomical interferometry, although that was a technique we made use of.
The same thing is true of many other types of noisy data. If you only ever look at the data at a point in time, or watch or listen to it as it changes, it’s difficult to see the signal through the noise, but if you have a system that allows this summation to happen, and you can look at the sum, suddenly the picture becomes clear.
If we layer lots of noisy data, we can start to see that the signal’s there…
But if we can sum the data it looks something like this:
Now we can clearly see the signal! Is it truth? Not necessarily, but the analyst can now see that there is agreement across the data. If you want more information, you also need a system that gives you a way to dive into the details of what data contributed to the peaks. And now you also have guidance as to where to collect more data, ideally from additional sources. More on that in another post.
This is related to why Google is so good and your organization’s internal Search is so bad. Even though Google’s data source, the Internet, is way noisier than your organization’s intranet (I hope), Google is still better. This is true even if you have an in-house Google appliance. It’s because of Google’s second big data source (equally noisy): the billions of user clicks. Google doesn’t show you the sum of that data, but it does use that aggregation to decide what to show you. In essence, Google finds the peaks of agreement among billions of clicks and shows you just the peaks. Your IT department doesn’t have enough click-data to do that for your organization, no matter how good their software is.
Reliability Scores
You also probably don’t need to assign reliability scores to your data sources, even though it seems like a perfectly logical, even prudent, thing to do. The problem is that the scores will be fairly arbitrary, hard to agree on, and may present a false sense of rigor where there isn’t any. There’s lots of ways a data source can be unreliable, but we’ve found different ways to handle them that avoid these problems. For example:
Problem: There’s hardly any signal (useful information) in the data. Solution: You’re not going to get any peaks even when you sum it all together. Don’t score it, ditch it.
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Problem: The data has been deliberately redacted to remove what you’re looking for. Solution: The more data there is, the harder it is to do this perfectly. If you get enough of it, you can find what was missed. Also, if you have enough of it, you’ll see mysterious quiet areas of data, because not only is the signal gone, but so is the noise. So you can detect the obfuscation, and you might even be able to catch the deceivers in a mistake.
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Problem: There are gaps in the data coverage. Solution: Again, it’s relevant, and should be documented, but it’s not a “reliability” issue. Maybe there weren’t enough 18-25 year-olds in the medical study you’re analyzing. Even so, if there’s a statistically significant result visible for 25-35 year-olds, you’ve still found something; you just don’t know if it works for young people.
Problem: The data’s useful, but its noise is obscuring the signal of other, cleaner data sets. Solution: Let the users turn data sets on and off as they choose. See, this is actually what people have in mind with reliability scores – they imagine they’ll either weight more reliable data higher, or the user will use the score to decide what to look at. It’s true, you 平行加速器安卓下载 end up doing some form of weighting. For example, a search engine might weight clicks higher for users who appear to come from a part of the world that speaks the language the results are in, so clicks from Italy have more effect on ranking Italian search results. But you don’t want to do this before you’ve had a chance to work with the data in the system. As for showing the reliability scores to the analysts…believe me, your analysts already have strong opinions on the reliability of individual data sources, and they will ignore your well-intentioned ratings. If you just give them the ability to turn them on and off, they’ll be happy and productive.
In short, signal reveals itself in noisy data if you have enough of it. And have tools that let you work with all of it in aggregate, while still letting you quickly get the details of the revealed signal.
And, in a thousand ways, the leaders that Sweet Briar had been quietly producing in the Virginia countryside for the last century showed us all how to surmount great challenges.
A powerful social media campaign commenced. It was never viral – a small liberal arts women’s college closing is not sensational. The campaign was simply sustained by relentless effort, to the point that that became noteworthy. Major media outlets began to pick it up, and #savesweetbriar stayed in the news for months.
Months was all that was needed, because #savesweetbriar wasn’t just a hashtag:
3 months and 17 days later, the alumnae fought the closure all the way to the Virginia Supreme Court, and won a settlement that would prevent the closure and oust the president and much of the board. Legal battles are expensive, but it was only half the battle. The other half was to raise enough money to prove that the college was viable. Small schools (SBC averages about 500 students) don’t actually have that many alumnae, so this wasn’t easy. Worse, the settlement imposed strict deadlines – $12 million in 60 days or the deal was off. That’s a million every 5 days.
They delivered it early.
A year later, the school is revitalized and shows every sign of having a bright future.
A year later, we can be grateful to the gift given to us by former president Jones and the board – every Sweet Briar vixen alive knows they graduated from Sweet Briar College, the small liberal arts women’s college of kick-ass leadership.
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Approve all leave requests immediately. They’ve already earned it; playing gatekeeper over when they use it is patronizing.
Take responsibility for problems. If you’re late, don’t blame your team. If someone’s not performing, it’s your job to handle it with them directly.
Be a good shit shield. If this job was easy, you wouldn’t get paid so much to do it. That means there are going to be political battles, competition for resources, complaints, demands for you to justify your methods or even your existence, et cetera. Your team needs to know they can trust you to take care of the external turmoil, so they can concentrate on building the thing.
Don’t waste their time. If you’re holding weekly hour-long meetings, you’re probably doing it wrong. If you need to plan or review a sprint, solve a problem, make a decision as a team, fine. Status meetings, if needed, should be fast, which is why many teams do them standing up. Meet with purpose.
Remember that even though you’re all a team, you’re the one who decides what it’s like to be on the team.
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Vienna is Christmas Vegas. A dozen Xmas markets, 2 Xmas trains, thousands of revelers drinking Punsch on the street. pic.twitter.com/VBtYPOx2JE
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So when I’m tired, either physically or emotionally, I find that I tend to seek easy distractions. It reminds me of vegging out to whatever was on “the tube” back when TVs were actually tubes and you had to watch “what was on.” Except now it tends to be FaceBook or Instagram. Not that there’s anything wrong with social media, but I’d rather do it on purpose, not because I’m too decision-fatigued to come up with something better to do.
A lot of the time, when I quit swiping through whatever app it is, I regret that instead of goofing off, I didn’t do something just as easy, but more enriching, like go through articles I’ve bookmarked to read later, or read up on some of the tips and tricks linked from my favorite podcast. Call it goofing on. Sometimes the only reason I didn’t is that I would have had to decide on something and then find it.
So this page is my equivalent of setting out my running shoes the night before – something you do when the motivation and will are high, that reduces the barrier for me when I know it will be low. Give some of these a try if you want, and let me know if you have any top links/resources/activities you’d add!
In the vein of tinyhabits.com and coach.me (formerly LiftApp), the habit I’m trying to build is:
When I want to play a game, check FB, etc., I open this list first.
Check Kindle and/or iBooks for non-fiction I might feel like reading a page from
Read show notes from favorite episodes of The Tim Ferriss Show
Things to do when I’m frustrated and need to do something else for a minute
DuoLingo
Process email (either business or personal)
Think of one thing I’ve learned from the most recent thing I’ve read and put one or more action items in my calendar that will help me put it into practice.
